Well that was fascinating. There truly are all different internalized understandings of transition. I appreciate hearing a different point of view. However, he seems to show his own bias in his discussion of ROGD. When people of my generation didn’t “fit in” we went to musical identities- heavy metal, rap, punk, goth- and we outfitted ourselves to match our affiliations. The idea that any young person “needs” to medically transition is very modern, very culturally specific, and very much in line with our Western culture’s obsession with the individual as opposed to the collective. I so enjoy reading your explorations and discussions with people on this topic! Thank you.
He claims Lisa Littman INVENTED rapid onset gender dysphoria. His entire focus is how he's all good and trans exists. No, it doesn't. It's a medical cult and crywankers like this are keeping us all stuck, using their language, explaining his perversion away as he's a 'good' one. All men are men. They can't join the sisterhood. He's a daft tranny MAN.
Hey Rex, I feel like you've missed the purpose of this series. It was to test the ideas behind sexology, talk to the people impacted, and to see if the theories hold any weight in a practical setting. I don't think they do, as the outcomes are seem the same (transition and surgeries). Just saying that isn't enough, I want to demonstrate why, and I think I did, but this was very much a piece for myself and those looking in who are trying to understand why young men get caught up in this.
Like women are your ballpark, men are mine, and I don't think its unreasonable to want to explore it.
"I’ve never been married, left a family behind". But to be accused of this by women is very natural. It's not widely known that Miranda Yardley has an ex wife and a daughter. I wonder why so many women don't know that in the UK? I didn't know that until a younger woman showed me. It's really not surprising that the AGPs are so many and then they tell people they are gay.
To the female sex this sexual typologie doesn't matter. We don't protect ourselves from the sexual desires of men, we protect ourselves from the male sex, to which sexuality is a smaller and less important part. We don't care what you call yourselves or what you do. To impose males on women is Afganistan level of misogynist culture.
Sure it is, I'm not saying it isnt, what I'm saying is its unfair to those who have nothing to do with that person, to have the wrath of their pain projected onto them. We too have been terribly victimised by the ideology, some of us have lost years of our life and lifespan, as well as body parts, yet are expected to bow down to the grief of others. This is one of the reasons why the empathy gap is so prevalent, in my opinion.
Sure, I understand you're saying that. Yet, what I'm saying to you, to push you to really and emphatically understand why women lash out at ALL MEN (we don't care about your imagined / newly invented sexual dimensions) is because men do so much harm to us women since forever. You never see us not resist. We always resist - we don't say "well it's not me who abused the family, it's that other woman". Men do say that.
The issue with not caring about the differences of our abusers is not a new situation for women.
There sure will be adjustments in society, but not before the horrible backlash. That backlash hasn't come yet. You and I might find ourselves in a similar position when the "purge" comes even though I haven't chopped up body parts. As a matter of fact body parts and whole babies were "chopped up" from women (to be sold) and nothing changed (women are still abused with impunity, after all the court cases and legal protections).
Where the "trannies against surrogacy" battalion? I haven't seen on. Or against prostitution?
One of the horrific public cases happening now in France is about a septogenerian woman who was drugged and raped and filmed for 10 years by he husband. It didn't happen in rural Afganistan, it happened in neoliberal France with great history of a "justice loving" and a functioning court system. Did you hear an outcry for a death sentence? I didn't.
This means that society is ok with abusing a part of it's own people, and it's permissable to be done to some, chosen to be sacrificial lambs.
The Ancient society was blunt about the sacrifice, we in the Western world are covert
This is the sentiment you should think about, and not expect a part of society harmed by men, aka women (we don't own you anything and have our own issues) to show ANY emphaty for a guy who harmed himself in the for profit medical system.
I live in Serbia. I would not be showing solidarity with women in EU or UK who are pushing for war with Iran quoting their "systematic crimes against women". So I don't care this dude in Serbia that has international funding and has institutiones laws that harm wives of the sudden get out of marriage tranny men, chopped up his dick and goes around town telling women he's a lesbian. Or a gay guy who told me he's a woman because he was raped by men several times.
Or a gay guy who lives in Qatar with his dick intact and his ID changed to show his "female sex". Well all of them bother us. All.Of.Them. This means you too, when you're not able to not say "women abuse me and I'm not THAT abusive man". Yet you bring this guy to explain how he loves dick no matter if it's estrogenic or not. ;) Take care.
I find myself still pretty confused about the concept of meta attraction. Your explanation near the end of this piece, that the result is the same as being gay, made sense. I feel like if you want to be loved by a man, you want to be loved by a man right ? But i’m new to the concept. Thanks for your writing.
thanks to this person who volunteered to tell their story. i wish this person all the joy and happiness as i would anyone. however, because mens rights activists are engaging in a PR campaign that robs the rights of and harms women, kids, gays, people with psych issues and others, his claims and experience should be looked at for what they are: a story of a kid who experinced normal psych issues, the exact same worries, sadness and anxiety that probably 30% of the entire population of earth has experinced since man was living in caves and eating grass, and then he was tricked into a quack intervention that actually has zero evidence of benefit, and now hes claiming hes happy and thinks his experience is evidence this intervention works. it doesnt. one persons short term experience isnt evidence of anything. for every one person who claims gender ID helps there are two that found it doesnt. that doesnt mean adults shouldnt be able to ID as opposite gender. as far as I know any adult can already do this. but since this is an optional hobby, i cant think of any reason why the public should pay for it. there are 1000 reasons why people opt to transition. in general, satisfaction with transition fades with time. the people most satisfied with transition are usually in the early stages. this is the time where previously isolated people bond with a new group based on their interest in gender ID. this is the time where people are love bombed etc. and this is the duration captured via pill biz studies claiming gender "care" helps. or perhaps none of that occurs and instead there are other perceived benefits. in economics there is a concept known as marginal utility. its the idea that the first bite of a hamburger is more satisfying than the last. people who enjoy drugs or alcohol are very familiar with this phenomenon. a cocaine high is always followed by a cocaine low. during the low the user feels much worse than he did prior to drug use. this concept also occurs with gender "care". german insurance records show 50% stop taking gender meds by year 4. US military reported similar #s. detrans ppl say it often takes 10 years to detrans after the start of gender meds, much less without. people usually grow out of psych issues. but thats the opposite of what happens when psych issues are addressed with gender "care". UK medical provider BMJ report "gender dysphoria in youth is rising" explains why some think gender "care" helps. its not based on evidence. its based on wild claims of quacks who are getting rich harming vulnerable ppl. gender biz priests and snake oil salesmen say "trust us". this works". but their claims dont count as evidence. its quackery and the dead bodies prove it. amsterdam has 50 years of data of people on gender meds. they say ppl on gender meds die early 2x ave and commit suicide 20x ave. they dont start out that way tho. its only after taking gender meds that people do so terrible. if people dont take gender meds usually their psych issues resolve eventually. where does this leave transitioned people? all people deserve respect and acceptance. ive lived in large cities on west coast of US my entire life. i just cant imagine anyone who is "trans" having any problems. and crime stats show that "trans" are one of the safest groups, when one considers that most of the issues they have are with people they know or do business with. theyre no less safe than others doing the same activities. but it must be said that trans ID is a choice . a hobby. like baseball , soccer or chess. to claim this choice is on par with immutable characteristics like ethnic background, sex or sexuality is is racist, misogynist and homophobic. Ppl who ID as trans can gain acceptance by participating with the general community in the same way as anyone else does. that means respecting womens right to single sex space and the exploratory response to dysphoria. i understand that gender biz claims and slogans dont agree with most of what ive written. there is an easy explanation for this. gender ideology PR specialists are lying. in fact , every gender biz claim is a lie. all based on meaningless online polls run by activists at trevor and low quality stats that only measure expert opinion. tho the US gov has never done a systematic review if gender care helps. other countries have done so. they found gender biz claims are all smoke. meanwhile innocent ppl are being tricked by big biz ad campaign.
Hey Ute! To be fair, he didnt mention anything about competing in sports, or asserting that he is a true woman. And i suspect that he knows that he is not one either, yet i dont think this is going to change any outcome for him.
Well that was fascinating. There truly are all different internalized understandings of transition. I appreciate hearing a different point of view. However, he seems to show his own bias in his discussion of ROGD. When people of my generation didn’t “fit in” we went to musical identities- heavy metal, rap, punk, goth- and we outfitted ourselves to match our affiliations. The idea that any young person “needs” to medically transition is very modern, very culturally specific, and very much in line with our Western culture’s obsession with the individual as opposed to the collective. I so enjoy reading your explorations and discussions with people on this topic! Thank you.
He's a meat suit cosplay tranny. Yawn.
He claims Lisa Littman INVENTED rapid onset gender dysphoria. His entire focus is how he's all good and trans exists. No, it doesn't. It's a medical cult and crywankers like this are keeping us all stuck, using their language, explaining his perversion away as he's a 'good' one. All men are men. They can't join the sisterhood. He's a daft tranny MAN.
Hey Rex, I feel like you've missed the purpose of this series. It was to test the ideas behind sexology, talk to the people impacted, and to see if the theories hold any weight in a practical setting. I don't think they do, as the outcomes are seem the same (transition and surgeries). Just saying that isn't enough, I want to demonstrate why, and I think I did, but this was very much a piece for myself and those looking in who are trying to understand why young men get caught up in this.
Like women are your ballpark, men are mine, and I don't think its unreasonable to want to explore it.
Keep them the fuck out of our spaces first, THEN we'll talk to them about their imaginary struggles being 'women', bro.
Thanks for the reply, there is NOTHING I want a transvestite to explain to me.
"I’ve never been married, left a family behind". But to be accused of this by women is very natural. It's not widely known that Miranda Yardley has an ex wife and a daughter. I wonder why so many women don't know that in the UK? I didn't know that until a younger woman showed me. It's really not surprising that the AGPs are so many and then they tell people they are gay.
To the female sex this sexual typologie doesn't matter. We don't protect ourselves from the sexual desires of men, we protect ourselves from the male sex, to which sexuality is a smaller and less important part. We don't care what you call yourselves or what you do. To impose males on women is Afganistan level of misogynist culture.
Sure it is, I'm not saying it isnt, what I'm saying is its unfair to those who have nothing to do with that person, to have the wrath of their pain projected onto them. We too have been terribly victimised by the ideology, some of us have lost years of our life and lifespan, as well as body parts, yet are expected to bow down to the grief of others. This is one of the reasons why the empathy gap is so prevalent, in my opinion.
Sure, I understand you're saying that. Yet, what I'm saying to you, to push you to really and emphatically understand why women lash out at ALL MEN (we don't care about your imagined / newly invented sexual dimensions) is because men do so much harm to us women since forever. You never see us not resist. We always resist - we don't say "well it's not me who abused the family, it's that other woman". Men do say that.
The issue with not caring about the differences of our abusers is not a new situation for women.
There sure will be adjustments in society, but not before the horrible backlash. That backlash hasn't come yet. You and I might find ourselves in a similar position when the "purge" comes even though I haven't chopped up body parts. As a matter of fact body parts and whole babies were "chopped up" from women (to be sold) and nothing changed (women are still abused with impunity, after all the court cases and legal protections).
Where the "trannies against surrogacy" battalion? I haven't seen on. Or against prostitution?
One of the horrific public cases happening now in France is about a septogenerian woman who was drugged and raped and filmed for 10 years by he husband. It didn't happen in rural Afganistan, it happened in neoliberal France with great history of a "justice loving" and a functioning court system. Did you hear an outcry for a death sentence? I didn't.
This means that society is ok with abusing a part of it's own people, and it's permissable to be done to some, chosen to be sacrificial lambs.
The Ancient society was blunt about the sacrifice, we in the Western world are covert
This is the sentiment you should think about, and not expect a part of society harmed by men, aka women (we don't own you anything and have our own issues) to show ANY emphaty for a guy who harmed himself in the for profit medical system.
I live in Serbia. I would not be showing solidarity with women in EU or UK who are pushing for war with Iran quoting their "systematic crimes against women". So I don't care this dude in Serbia that has international funding and has institutiones laws that harm wives of the sudden get out of marriage tranny men, chopped up his dick and goes around town telling women he's a lesbian. Or a gay guy who told me he's a woman because he was raped by men several times.
Or a gay guy who lives in Qatar with his dick intact and his ID changed to show his "female sex". Well all of them bother us. All.Of.Them. This means you too, when you're not able to not say "women abuse me and I'm not THAT abusive man". Yet you bring this guy to explain how he loves dick no matter if it's estrogenic or not. ;) Take care.
Sorry for the many typos, stress has taken my sight after COVID. :)
Thank you for this thought-provoking series.
I don't see much self-awareness in any of this. I see a typical very young person being a smartass.
I find myself still pretty confused about the concept of meta attraction. Your explanation near the end of this piece, that the result is the same as being gay, made sense. I feel like if you want to be loved by a man, you want to be loved by a man right ? But i’m new to the concept. Thanks for your writing.
thanks to this person who volunteered to tell their story. i wish this person all the joy and happiness as i would anyone. however, because mens rights activists are engaging in a PR campaign that robs the rights of and harms women, kids, gays, people with psych issues and others, his claims and experience should be looked at for what they are: a story of a kid who experinced normal psych issues, the exact same worries, sadness and anxiety that probably 30% of the entire population of earth has experinced since man was living in caves and eating grass, and then he was tricked into a quack intervention that actually has zero evidence of benefit, and now hes claiming hes happy and thinks his experience is evidence this intervention works. it doesnt. one persons short term experience isnt evidence of anything. for every one person who claims gender ID helps there are two that found it doesnt. that doesnt mean adults shouldnt be able to ID as opposite gender. as far as I know any adult can already do this. but since this is an optional hobby, i cant think of any reason why the public should pay for it. there are 1000 reasons why people opt to transition. in general, satisfaction with transition fades with time. the people most satisfied with transition are usually in the early stages. this is the time where previously isolated people bond with a new group based on their interest in gender ID. this is the time where people are love bombed etc. and this is the duration captured via pill biz studies claiming gender "care" helps. or perhaps none of that occurs and instead there are other perceived benefits. in economics there is a concept known as marginal utility. its the idea that the first bite of a hamburger is more satisfying than the last. people who enjoy drugs or alcohol are very familiar with this phenomenon. a cocaine high is always followed by a cocaine low. during the low the user feels much worse than he did prior to drug use. this concept also occurs with gender "care". german insurance records show 50% stop taking gender meds by year 4. US military reported similar #s. detrans ppl say it often takes 10 years to detrans after the start of gender meds, much less without. people usually grow out of psych issues. but thats the opposite of what happens when psych issues are addressed with gender "care". UK medical provider BMJ report "gender dysphoria in youth is rising" explains why some think gender "care" helps. its not based on evidence. its based on wild claims of quacks who are getting rich harming vulnerable ppl. gender biz priests and snake oil salesmen say "trust us". this works". but their claims dont count as evidence. its quackery and the dead bodies prove it. amsterdam has 50 years of data of people on gender meds. they say ppl on gender meds die early 2x ave and commit suicide 20x ave. they dont start out that way tho. its only after taking gender meds that people do so terrible. if people dont take gender meds usually their psych issues resolve eventually. where does this leave transitioned people? all people deserve respect and acceptance. ive lived in large cities on west coast of US my entire life. i just cant imagine anyone who is "trans" having any problems. and crime stats show that "trans" are one of the safest groups, when one considers that most of the issues they have are with people they know or do business with. theyre no less safe than others doing the same activities. but it must be said that trans ID is a choice . a hobby. like baseball , soccer or chess. to claim this choice is on par with immutable characteristics like ethnic background, sex or sexuality is is racist, misogynist and homophobic. Ppl who ID as trans can gain acceptance by participating with the general community in the same way as anyone else does. that means respecting womens right to single sex space and the exploratory response to dysphoria. i understand that gender biz claims and slogans dont agree with most of what ive written. there is an easy explanation for this. gender ideology PR specialists are lying. in fact , every gender biz claim is a lie. all based on meaningless online polls run by activists at trevor and low quality stats that only measure expert opinion. tho the US gov has never done a systematic review if gender care helps. other countries have done so. they found gender biz claims are all smoke. meanwhile innocent ppl are being tricked by big biz ad campaign.
https://youtu.be/d_HlPboLRL8?si=1Vk84PAxjm4RmViI
This guy's comment is longer than my sermon. Just saying. 😂
Hey Ute! To be fair, he didnt mention anything about competing in sports, or asserting that he is a true woman. And i suspect that he knows that he is not one either, yet i dont think this is going to change any outcome for him.