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Sep 25Liked by @TullipR / Ritchie

Well that was fascinating. There truly are all different internalized understandings of transition. I appreciate hearing a different point of view. However, he seems to show his own bias in his discussion of ROGD. When people of my generation didn’t “fit in” we went to musical identities- heavy metal, rap, punk, goth- and we outfitted ourselves to match our affiliations. The idea that any young person “needs” to medically transition is very modern, very culturally specific, and very much in line with our Western culture’s obsession with the individual as opposed to the collective. I so enjoy reading your explorations and discussions with people on this topic! Thank you.

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He's a meat suit cosplay tranny. Yawn.

He claims Lisa Littman INVENTED rapid onset gender dysphoria. His entire focus is how he's all good and trans exists. No, it doesn't. It's a medical cult and crywankers like this are keeping us all stuck, using their language, explaining his perversion away as he's a 'good' one. All men are men. They can't join the sisterhood. He's a daft tranny MAN.

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Hey Rex, I feel like you've missed the purpose of this series. It was to test the ideas behind sexology, talk to the people impacted, and to see if the theories hold any weight in a practical setting. I don't think they do, as the outcomes are seem the same (transition and surgeries). Just saying that isn't enough, I want to demonstrate why, and I think I did, but this was very much a piece for myself and those looking in who are trying to understand why young men get caught up in this.

Like women are your ballpark, men are mine, and I don't think its unreasonable to want to explore it.

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Keep them the fuck out of our spaces first, THEN we'll talk to them about their imaginary struggles being 'women', bro.

Thanks for the reply, there is NOTHING I want a transvestite to explain to me.

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Sep 25Liked by @TullipR / Ritchie

"I’ve never been married, left a family behind". But to be accused of this by women is very natural. It's not widely known that Miranda Yardley has an ex wife and a daughter. I wonder why so many women don't know that in the UK? I didn't know that until a younger woman showed me. It's really not surprising that the AGPs are so many and then they tell people they are gay.

To the female sex this sexual typologie doesn't matter. We don't protect ourselves from the sexual desires of men, we protect ourselves from the male sex, to which sexuality is a smaller and less important part. We don't care what you call yourselves or what you do. To impose males on women is Afganistan level of misogynist culture.

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Sure it is, I'm not saying it isnt, what I'm saying is its unfair to those who have nothing to do with that person, to have the wrath of their pain projected onto them. We too have been terribly victimised by the ideology, some of us have lost years of our life and lifespan, as well as body parts, yet are expected to bow down to the grief of others. This is one of the reasons why the empathy gap is so prevalent, in my opinion.

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Sep 25Liked by @TullipR / Ritchie

Sure, I understand you're saying that. Yet, what I'm saying to you, to push you to really and emphatically understand why women lash out at ALL MEN (we don't care about your imagined / newly invented sexual dimensions) is because men do so much harm to us women since forever. You never see us not resist. We always resist - we don't say "well it's not me who abused the family, it's that other woman". Men do say that.

The issue with not caring about the differences of our abusers is not a new situation for women.

There sure will be adjustments in society, but not before the horrible backlash. That backlash hasn't come yet. You and I might find ourselves in a similar position when the "purge" comes even though I haven't chopped up body parts. As a matter of fact body parts and whole babies were "chopped up" from women (to be sold) and nothing changed (women are still abused with impunity, after all the court cases and legal protections).

Where the "trannies against surrogacy" battalion? I haven't seen on. Or against prostitution?

One of the horrific public cases happening now in France is about a septogenerian woman who was drugged and raped and filmed for 10 years by he husband. It didn't happen in rural Afganistan, it happened in neoliberal France with great history of a "justice loving" and a functioning court system. Did you hear an outcry for a death sentence? I didn't.

This means that society is ok with abusing a part of it's own people, and it's permissable to be done to some, chosen to be sacrificial lambs.

The Ancient society was blunt about the sacrifice, we in the Western world are covert

This is the sentiment you should think about, and not expect a part of society harmed by men, aka women (we don't own you anything and have our own issues) to show ANY emphaty for a guy who harmed himself in the for profit medical system.

I live in Serbia. I would not be showing solidarity with women in EU or UK who are pushing for war with Iran quoting their "systematic crimes against women". So I don't care this dude in Serbia that has international funding and has institutiones laws that harm wives of the sudden get out of marriage tranny men, chopped up his dick and goes around town telling women he's a lesbian. Or a gay guy who told me he's a woman because he was raped by men several times.

Or a gay guy who lives in Qatar with his dick intact and his ID changed to show his "female sex". Well all of them bother us. All.Of.Them. This means you too, when you're not able to not say "women abuse me and I'm not THAT abusive man". Yet you bring this guy to explain how he loves dick no matter if it's estrogenic or not. ;) Take care.

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Sep 25Liked by @TullipR / Ritchie

Sorry for the many typos, stress has taken my sight after COVID. :)

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Sep 25Liked by @TullipR / Ritchie

Thank you for this thought-provoking series.

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I don't see much self-awareness in any of this. I see a typical very young person being a smartass.

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I find myself still pretty confused about the concept of meta attraction. Your explanation near the end of this piece, that the result is the same as being gay, made sense. I feel like if you want to be loved by a man, you want to be loved by a man right ? But i’m new to the concept. Thanks for your writing.

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thanks to this person who volunteered to tell their story. i wish this person all the joy and happiness as i would anyone. however, because mens rights activists are engaging in a PR campaign that robs the rights of and harms women, kids, gays, people with psych issues and others, his claims and experience should be looked at for what they are: a story of a kid who experinced normal psych issues, the exact same worries, sadness and anxiety that probably 30% of the entire population of earth has experinced since man was living in caves and eating grass, and then he was tricked into a quack intervention that actually has zero evidence of benefit, and now hes claiming hes happy and thinks his experience is evidence this intervention works. it doesnt. one persons short term experience isnt evidence of anything. for every one person who claims gender ID helps there are two that found it doesnt. that doesnt mean adults shouldnt be able to ID as opposite gender. as far as I know any adult can already do this. but since this is an optional hobby, i cant think of any reason why the public should pay for it. there are 1000 reasons why people opt to transition. in general, satisfaction with transition fades with time. the people most satisfied with transition are usually in the early stages. this is the time where previously isolated people bond with a new group based on their interest in gender ID. this is the time where people are love bombed etc. and this is the duration captured via pill biz studies claiming gender "care" helps. or perhaps none of that occurs and instead there are other perceived benefits. in economics there is a concept known as marginal utility. its the idea that the first bite of a hamburger is more satisfying than the last. people who enjoy drugs or alcohol are very familiar with this phenomenon. a cocaine high is always followed by a cocaine low. during the low the user feels much worse than he did prior to drug use. this concept also occurs with gender "care". german insurance records show 50% stop taking gender meds by year 4. US military reported similar #s. detrans ppl say it often takes 10 years to detrans after the start of gender meds, much less without. people usually grow out of psych issues. but thats the opposite of what happens when psych issues are addressed with gender "care". UK medical provider BMJ report "gender dysphoria in youth is rising" explains why some think gender "care" helps. its not based on evidence. its based on wild claims of quacks who are getting rich harming vulnerable ppl. gender biz priests and snake oil salesmen say "trust us". this works". but their claims dont count as evidence. its quackery and the dead bodies prove it. amsterdam has 50 years of data of people on gender meds. they say ppl on gender meds die early 2x ave and commit suicide 20x ave. they dont start out that way tho. its only after taking gender meds that people do so terrible. if people dont take gender meds usually their psych issues resolve eventually. where does this leave transitioned people? all people deserve respect and acceptance. ive lived in large cities on west coast of US my entire life. i just cant imagine anyone who is "trans" having any problems. and crime stats show that "trans" are one of the safest groups, when one considers that most of the issues they have are with people they know or do business with. theyre no less safe than others doing the same activities. but it must be said that trans ID is a choice . a hobby. like baseball , soccer or chess. to claim this choice is on par with immutable characteristics like ethnic background, sex or sexuality is is racist, misogynist and homophobic. Ppl who ID as trans can gain acceptance by participating with the general community in the same way as anyone else does. that means respecting womens right to single sex space and the exploratory response to dysphoria. i understand that gender biz claims and slogans dont agree with most of what ive written. there is an easy explanation for this. gender ideology PR specialists are lying. in fact , every gender biz claim is a lie. all based on meaningless online polls run by activists at trevor and low quality stats that only measure expert opinion. tho the US gov has never done a systematic review if gender care helps. other countries have done so. they found gender biz claims are all smoke. meanwhile innocent ppl are being tricked by big biz ad campaign.

https://youtu.be/d_HlPboLRL8?si=1Vk84PAxjm4RmViI

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"having those desires and not wanting to offend sounds like a hell on earth."

Wrong, having those desires AND offending is where hell on earth comes in.

Matthew 18:7-9

Woe unto the world because of offences! for it must needs be that offences come; but woe to that man by whom the offence cometh!

 Wherefore if thy hand or thy foot offend thee, cut them off, and cast them from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life halt or maimed, rather than having two hands or two feet to be cast into everlasting fire.

 And if thine eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life with one eye, rather than having two eyes to be cast into hell fire.

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For an exposition of the way in which the desire itself creates an devouring internal chiasma which destroys our relationship with the Prince of life; follow this link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J3PF2FEN_58&t=6s

7. Jesus & Sexual Desire [Matthew] - Tim Mackie (The Bible Project)

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Matthew 18:10-14

Take heed that ye despise not one of these little ones; for I say unto you, That in heaven their angels do always behold the face of my Father which is in heaven.

 For the Son of man is come to save that which was lost.

How think ye? if a man have an hundred sheep, and one of them be gone astray, doth he not leave the ninety and nine, and goeth into the mountains, and seeketh that which is gone astray?

 And if so be that he find it, verily I say unto you, he rejoiceth more of that sheep, than of the ninety and nine which went not astray.

 Even so it is not the will of your Father which is in heaven, that one of these little ones should perish.

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John 10:10 KJV: The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.

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"I hope that both sides are able to stop pushing for laws that will restrict and bind researchers from conducting important scientific research and that activists will respect individuals' wishes to transition or detransition without attacking their decisions and restricting the options available to them to one narrow path."

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Matthew 7:13-14

Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat:

Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.

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"Detransition, transition or neither can look like a lot of things and the more restrictions on either side in this field that are in place, the more suffocated people will feel to only choose one or two pathways."

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Genesis 6

And it came to pass, when men began to multiply on the face of the earth, and daughters were born unto them,

That the sons of God saw the daughters of men that they were fair; and they took them wives of all which they chose.

And the LORD said, My spirit shall not always strive with man, for that he also is flesh: yet his days shall be an hundred and twenty years.

The Nephilim were on the earth in those days—and afterward as well—when the sons of God had relations with the daughters of men. And they bore them children who became the mighty men of old, men of renown.

And GOD saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every imagination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually.

And it repented the LORD that he had made man on the earth, and it grieved him at his heart.

And the LORD said, I will destroy man whom I have created from the face of the earth; both man, and beast, and the creeping thing, and the fowls of the air; for it repenteth me that I have made them.

But Noah found grace in the eyes of the LORD.

These are the generations of Noah: Noah was a just man and perfect in his generations, and Noah walked with God.

And Noah begat three sons, Shem, Ham, and Japheth.

The earth also was corrupt before God, and the earth was filled with violence.

And God looked upon the earth, and, behold, it was corrupt; for all flesh had corrupted his way upon the earth.

And God said to Noah, “The end of all flesh has come before Me, for the earth is filled with violence through them; and behold, I will destroy them with the earth.

Make yourself an ark of gopherwood; make rooms in the ark, and cover it inside and outside with pitch.

And this is how you shall make it: The length of the ark shall be three hundred cubits, its width fifty cubits, and its height thirty cubits.

You shall make a window for the ark, and you shall finish it to a cubit from above; and set the door of the ark in its side. You shall make it with lower, second, and third decks.

And behold, I Myself am bringing floodwaters on the earth, to destroy from under heaven all flesh in which is the breath of life; everything that is on the earth shall die.

But I will establish My covenant with you; and you shall go into the ark—you, your sons, your wife, and your sons’ wives with you.

And of every living thing of all flesh you shall bring two of every sort into the ark, to keep them alive with you; they shall be male and female.

Of the birds after their kind, of animals after their kind, and of every creeping thing of the earth after its kind, two of every kind will come to you to keep them alive. And you shall take for yourself of all food that is eaten, and you shall gather it to yourself; and it shall be food for you and for them.”

Thus Noah did; according to all that God commanded him, so he did.

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Luke 13:24

And He said to them,

“Strive to enter through the narrow gate, for many, I say to you, will seek to enter and will not be able.

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Then the Lord said to Noah, “Come into the ark, you and all your household, because I have seen that you are righteous before Me in this generation.

You shall take with you seven each of every clean animal, a male and his female; two each of animals that are unclean, a male and his female; also seven each of birds of the air, male and female, to keep the species alive on the face of all the earth.

For after seven more days I will cause it to rain on the earth forty days and forty nights, and I will destroy from the face of the earth all living things that I have made.”

And Noah did according to all that the Lord commanded him.

Noah was six hundred years old when the floodwaters were on the earth.

So Noah, with his sons, his wife, and his sons’ wives, went into the ark because of the waters of the flood.

Of clean animals, of animals that are unclean, of birds, and of everything that creeps on the earth,

two by two they went into the ark to Noah, male and female, as God had commanded Noah. And it came to pass after seven days that the waters of the flood were on the earth.

In the six hundredth year of Noah’s life, in the second month, the seventeenth day of the month, on that day all the fountains of the great deep were broken up, and the windows of heaven were opened. And the rain was on the earth forty days and forty nights.

On the very same day Noah and Noah’s sons, Shem, Ham, and Japheth, and Noah’s wife and the three wives of his sons with them, entered the ark—

they and every beast after its kind, all cattle after their kind, every creeping thing that creeps on the earth after its kind, and every bird after its kind, every bird of every sort.

And they went into the ark to Noah, two by two, of all flesh in which is the breath of life.

So those that entered, male and female of all flesh, went in as God had commanded him; and the Lord shut him in.

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Watchman nee: why the believer must not love the world:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2H5FAOj9Ec

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Sep 25Liked by @TullipR / Ritchie

This guy's comment is longer than my sermon. Just saying. 😂

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What you say?

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Hey Ute! To be fair, he didnt mention anything about competing in sports, or asserting that he is a true woman. And i suspect that he knows that he is not one either, yet i dont think this is going to change any outcome for him.

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