Challenging someone for using pronouns which do not correspond to their sex is like confronting a member of the congregation for what the preacher has told them to be gospel. Whose authority do you think they will respect? Yours? No, if anything your challenge further entrenches and reinforces what the preacher told them about the heretic.
So instead, you take a step back outside of the church and look around. What do you see? Pronoun Pamphlets littered across the landscape. “Add pronouns to your bio…” is nothing more than a call to church.
It is the first step into breaking down a persons inhibition and introducing them to the church’s gospel. It starts with a reasonable proposition “we just want to help people feel at ease” Absolutely, who on earth could argue with that? Seems totally reasonable…right?
This is the hook and before long the conditioning process has taken full swing, you’re telling other people about your new found belief. You’re an ally to the cause! you tell others to do as you have, it’s righteous, fair and it feels good, in fact it feels great to feel as if you’re doing something good! “I’m helping" You think to yourself as you were convinced otherwise. How could this possibly be a negative thing?
An update! We are now accepting brand new pronouns - “it/it, xe/xem/xyr, ze/hir/hirs, and ey/em/eir”
It looks like a typo, it feels like one too. Reluctantly, you accept, but your gut is pinging at you ‘something is off’. You don’t know what, you say you just don’t get it - and the preacher assures you this is just part of your sin, and repentance is straight forward and simple, you merely need to trust that they are right, and you are wrong.
It goes against your cognition. You raise an objection but because you’ve already attended church and given to the collection plate, you’re also in the lowest echelons of authority as an ‘ally’, you must do as you’re told.
You’re too afraid to remove the pronouns from your bio, because it’ll be noticed.
You stay quiet, you’ve been gagged and your only option is to leave the church and be labelled as a heretic if their multiple attempts to re-indoctrinate fail. You’ve seen how heretics are treat, how easily the Opes Dei contingents of the Church of Trans can destroy a persons life.
It’s no joke that, you can be cancelled to the point of losing employment for standing up against the church. Graham Linehan is perhaps the most prominent example of this. His marriage and career were all preverbally burned at the stake, which the congregation celebrate this to the day.
In the public sphere, women like Maya Forstater and JK Rowling have the advantage of not being a ‘white cis male’ yet have both equally faced immense backlash for stating what we all feel in our hearts. And many women’s groups rallied to support Maya and JK, as they should - but that support was never in place for men.
In an almost Abrahamic fashion the ‘white cis male’ is the devil of the not only the church of ‘gender ideology’ but other churches too. They are the one uniting true cause of sin and they must repent, according to the which ever doctrine you read…
A man speaking out today, especially against the holy grail, is the most targetable, the most criticised and the ones we need the most to speak. The church knows this, whilst women are targeted in gross ways, with death threats, rape threats and other horrific abuse; men are in a precarious position. It takes immense courage to speak out and speak up for men, women, girls and boys alike as a man.
To help women, men, boys and girls, everyone must be allowed a voice without condition or predisposed sin. We need a secular approach to the issue.
I’m not going to stop anyone from going to church, but just like I expect a separation from church and state in political life, we too need a return to gender secularism in our health, state policies and society, as the doctrine at this point has harmed and is harming many more then we think are being helped.
I see many attempting to confront the church and in not one scenario have I ever seen a significant number of people critically assess their own views. The confrontation is part of the doctrine, that sinners and heretics alike seek to rob you from your source of salvation.
You must instead tear up the pamphlets, walk past the preacher and listen to your gut. If it feels wrong, it probably is.
The more detrans males I speak too, the more I realise that we were all chronically connected to these messages, in some cases going back to the 90’s. This is not a recent phenomena, just an accelerated one.
Our handlers and groomers would regularly check in with our beliefs in a self reporting system, where you felt as if you had to voice each and every thought. Much like auditing in scientology, this is largely used to correct, realign and if necessary recall too the person who is being groomed to discredit and discount them.
I was chronically online, anxious, OCD, neurodiverse and was prime for the picking, as a teen and young adult, even into my 20’s I was extremely gullible and would take everything said to me as absolute truth, on the authority that it was an older person saying it.
We are easily led, we hate injustice and we look at things in problem/solution basis, often removing all nuance and taking things to absolutes. “I am dysphoric, therefore transition is a solution” The church is particularly skilled at targeting us, and young women because our thinking styles are the same. We hate our sex for a myriad of reasons, we are repulsed at our sexualities and all of us struggled fitting in.
Telling us this is because we are trans and that you need HRT/Surgery to fix it is not helpful. We become very attached and distraught when our toys are taken away from us, we’re the most likely to be the most extreme in our views because of our absolutism.
And because of our eloquence, kindness and all or nothing thinking; we excel at being front facing members for the church, putting on a friendly, youthful, healthy look on what is actually a very ugly, old and deeply unfriendly way of thinking and living.
We are vulnerable still, and we are here to speak our truth and more our voices are heard, the more others will hear us and realise that this isn’t what we thought it was.
It wasn’t the libertarian utopia we wanted it to be, it is instead a cull against neurodiveristy and gender non conformity, whether purposely or not, that is where we are. The pamphlets have landed in institutions, work places, schools, universities and it has only accelerated in the most statistically obvious way that this is contagion.
I used to think this was a good thing, but now seeing and understanding the mechanisms that have been put in place I feel physically sick at what I’ve done, what others have done and what we’re doing now.
Speaking up doesn’t mean shouting and I think that’s part of the problem. It means being heard and to be heard you must get people to listen. Detrans people should not be polarised but because of the constructs in place; we largely have no place in trans spaces. We are an inconvenient truth and we must never forget the power within this.
I’m not going to stop anyone from taking HRT or having surgery, but I will speak my truth and if that scrambles a few eggs then so be it.
As a mom of a gender confused son for the past three years, I plead with you and other detrans males, please help guide us to find more voices like yours for our young sons before they make irreversible choices?!
How can we inform more teachers and legislators who believe they are being inclusive by encouraging the affirmation only model and slow this whole trans train down a bit?
The grooming is what we need to prove is going on. This is what people need to know- the arc of this indoctrination - how it happens and how to see it before it’s too late… ?